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This is a list of books I found especially useful to shape my thinking, feeling, and doing. They are structured loosely around keywords.
Name
Author
Year
Category
Marion Franklin
The HeART of Laser-Focused Coaching: A Revolutionary Approach to Masterful Coaching
2019
Coaching
Bungay Stanier
The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever
2016
Coaching
Michael Neill
Supercoach 10th Anniversary Edition
2017
Coaching
Sir John Whitmore
Coaching for Performance: The Principles and Practice of Coaching and Leadership
2017
Coaching
S. N. Goenka
The Art Of Living: Vipassana Meditation
1987
Meditation
Daniel M. Ingram
Mastering the Core Teachings of the Buddha
2008
Meditation
John Yates
The Mind Illuminated: A Complete Meditation Guide Integrating Buddhist Wisdom and Brain Science for Greater Mindfulness
2017
Meditation
Szhinzen Young
The Science of Enlightment
2016
Meditation
Tim Ferriss
The 4-Hour Workweek
2007
Effective work
Jason Fried
Rework
2012
Effective work
Jason Fried
Remote
2013
Effective work
Cal Newport
So Good They Can’t Ignore
2012
Effective work
Cal Newport
Deep Work Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted World
2016
Effective work
Cal Newport
Digital Minimalism. Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World
2020
Effective work
Gary Keller
The One Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results
2014
Effective work
Robert K. Greenleaf
Servant Leadership [25th Anniversary Edition]: A Journey into the Nature of Legitimate Power and Greatness
1997
Leadership
Jocko Willink
Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win
2017
Leadership
Simon Sinek
Leaders Eat Last
2014
Leadership
Michael Gelb
How to Think Like Leonardo Da Vinci
1988
Creativity
Steven Johnson
Where Good Ideas Come From: The Natural History of Innovation
2020
Creativity
Stephen Covey
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
1989
Thinking
Bernard Roth
The Achievement Habit. Stop Wishing, Start Doing, and Take Command of Your Life
2012
Thinking
George Lakoff, Mark Johnson
Metaphors We Live By
1980
Thinking
Simon Sinek
Start With Why
2009
Thinking
Douglas Hofstadter, Emmanuel Sander
Surfaces and Essences
2013
Thinking
Brian Christian, Tom Griffiths
Algorithms to Live By
2016
Thinking
Annie Duke
Thinking in Bets
2018
Thinking
Carol Tavris
Mistakes Were Made (but Not by Me): Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions and Hurtful Acts
2020
Thinking
Ray Dalio
Principles Life and Work
2017
Thinking
Lawrence Freedman
Strategy
2013
Thinking
Daniel Kahneman
Thinking, Fast and Slow
2011
Thinking
Shane Parrish
The Great Mental Models
2009
Mental models
Yuval Noah Harari
Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind
2015
History
Yuval Noah Harari
Homo Deus: A Brief History of Tomorrow
2017
History
Yuval Noah Harari
21 Lessons for the 21st Century
2019
History
Marshall B. Rosenberg
Nonviolent Communication — A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships
2015
Communication
Larry King
How to Talk to Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere
1996
Communication
Sidney Rosen
My Voice Will Go with You: The Teaching Tales of Milton H. Erickson
1982
Storytelling
Margaret Parkin
Tales for Trainers: Using Stories and Metaphors to Facilitate Learning
N/D
Storytelling
Annette Simmons
Whoever Tells the Best Story Wins: How to Use Your Own Stories to Communicate with Power and Impact
2015
Storytelling
Christopher Booker
The Seven Basic Plots
2004
Storytelling
Dale Carnegie
How to Develop Self-confidence and Influence People by Public Speaking
1990
Public speaking
Herbert Benson
The Relaxation Response
1975
Public speaking
Benjamin K. Bergen
Louder Than Words. The New Science of How the Mind Makes Meaning
2014
Public speaking
Nancy Duarte
Slide:ology: The Art and Science of Presentation Design
N/D
Presentations
Max Atkinson
Lend Me Your Ears: All You Need to Know About Making Speeches and Presentations
2004
Presentations
Seth Godin
Permission Marketing
1999
Marketing
Seth Godin
This is Marketing. You Can’t Be Seen Until You Learn To See
2018
Marketing
Daniel H. Pink
To Sell Is Human
2012
Marketing
Gary Vaynerchuk
Crush It! Why NOW is the Time to Cash in on Your Passion
2009
Marketing
Gary Vaynerchuk
Crushing It
N/D
Marketing
John Carlton
Kick Ass Copywriting Secrets of a Marketing Rebel
2002
Marketing
Julia Cameron
The Artist’s Way
1992
Creative work/Writing
Steven Pressfield
The War of Art, Winning the Inner Creative Battle
2002
Creative work/Writing
Twyla Thar
The Creative Habit, Learn It and Use It for Life
2003
Creative work/Writing
Twyla Thar
The Creative Habit
2006
Creative work/Writing
Steven Pressfield
Nobody Wants to Read Your Sh*t: And Other Tough-Love Truths to Make You a Better Writer
2016
Creative work/Writing
Steven Pressfield
The Artist’s Journey: The Wake of the Hero’s Journey and the Lifelong Pursuit of Meaning
2018
Creative work/Writing
Mason Currey
Daily Rituals. How Artists Work
2013
Creative work/Writing
Johnny B. Truant, Sean Platt
Write. Publish. Repeat
2013
Creative work/Writing
George J. Thompson PhD
Verbal Judo, The Gentle Art of Persuasion
1983
Social Influence & Persuasion
Robert Cialdini
Influence
2006
Social Influence & Persuasion
Robert Cialdini
Pre-Suasion – A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade
2016
Social Influence & Persuasion
Jonah Berger
Contagious, Why Things Catch On
2013
Social Influence & Persuasion
Nassim Nicholas Taleb
Skin in the Game Hidden Asymmetries in Daily Life
2017
Social Influence & Persuasion
Kelly McGonigal
The Artist’s Way
2015
Stress
Sian Beilock
Choke: What the Secrets of the Brain Reveal about Getting It Right When You Have to
2011
Stress
Helen Fisher
Why Him Why Her Understanding Your Personality Type
2009
Personality
Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga
The Courage to Be Disliked. The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
2013
Personality
Richard Wiseman
The As If Principle
2013
Character
David Brooks
The Road To Character
2015
Character
David Brooks
The Second Mountain
2019
Character
James E. Loehr
Leading with Character: 10 Minutes a Day to a Brilliant Legacy Set
2020
Character
Dan Ariely
Predictably Irrational
2008
Heuristics & Irrationality
Dan Ariely
The Upside to Irrationality
2010
Heuristics & Irrationality
Daniel Kahneman
Thinking, Fast and Slow
2011
Heuristics & Irrationality
Marcus Aurelius
The Meditations
N/D
Humility & Ego
Carol Tavris
Mistakes Were Made But Not By Me
2007
Humility & Ego
Dan Ariely
The Honest Truth About Dishonesty. How We Lie to Everyone. Especially Ourselves
2012
Humility & Ego
Ryan Holiday
Ego Is the Enemy
2016
Humility & Ego
Charles Duhigg
The Power of Habit. Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business
2012
Habit formation
James Clear
Atomic Habits
2018
Habit formation
Malcolm Gladwell
Outliers: The Story of Success
2008
Expertise & Deliberate Practice
Robert Greene
Mastery
2012
Expertise & Deliberate Practice
David Epstein
The Sports Gene. Inside the Science of Extraordinary Athletic Performance
2013
Expertise & Deliberate Practice
David Epstein
Range. Why Generalists Triumph in a Specialized World
2019
Expertise & Deliberate Practice
Anders Ericsson
Peak, Secrets from the New Science of Expertise
2019
Expertise & Deliberate Practice
Joseph Campbell
The Hero with a Thousand Faces
1949
Purpose
Joseph Campbell
Myths to Live By
1972
Purpose
Todd Henry
Die Empty. Unleash Your Best Work Every Day
2013
Purpose
Hector Garcia Puigcerver
Ikigai. The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life
2017
Purpose
Simon Sinek
Find Your Why
2017
Purpose
George Mumford, Phil Jackson
The Mindful Athlete Secrets to Pure Performance
2015
Perfomance
Brendon Burchard
High Performance Habits
2017
Perfomance
Windy Dryden
The Practice of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy: Second Edition
2007
Therapy
Albert Ellis
Overcoming Destructive Beliefs, Feelings, and Behaviors: New Directions for Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy
2001
Therapy
Albert Ellis
How To Stubbornly Refuse To Make Yourself Miserable About Anything-yes, Anything!
2019
Therapy
Daniel David, Steven Jay Lynn, Albert Ellis
Rational and Irrational Beliefs: Research, Theory, and Clinical Practice
2009
Therapy
Albert Ellis
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy: It Works for Me — It Can Work for You
2004
Therapy
Dr. Steven Hayes
A Liberated Mind: The essential guide to ACT
2019
Therapy
Dan Ariely
Predictably Irrational
2008
Self-Compassion
Albert Ellis
Myth of Self-Esteem: How Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy Can Change Your Life Forever
2005
Self-Esteem
Matthew McKay, Patrick Fanning
Self-Esteem: A Proven Program of Cognitive Techniques for Assessing, Improving and Maintaining Your Self-esteem
2016
Self-Esteem
Matthew McKay
The Self-Esteem Companion: Simple Exercises to Help You Challenge Your Inner Critic and Celebrate Your Personal Strengths
2011
Self-Esteem
Nathaniel Branden
How to Raise Your Self-Esteem: The Proven Action-Oriented Approach to Greater Self-Respect and Self-Confidence
1988
Self-Esteem
Roy F. Baumeister, John Tierney
Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength
N/D
Motivation & Discipline
Heidi Grant Halvorson Ph.D., Carol S. Dweck
Succeed: How We Can Reach Our Goals
N/D
Motivation & Discipline
Daniel H. Pink
Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us
2016
Motivation & Discipline
Carol Dweck
Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
2004
Mindset
Paul Watzlawick
The Situation Is Hopeless, But Not Serious: The Pursuit of Unhappiness
1993
Perspective
Darren Hardy
The Compound Effect
2010
Perspective
Nassim Nicholas Taleb
Antifragile. Things That Gain From Disorder
2012
Perspective
Ryan Holiday
The Obstacle Is the Way
2014
Perspective
Tal Ben-Shahar
Happier. Learn the Secrets to Daily Joy and Lasting Fulfillment
2007
Positive Psychology, Well-being, Flourishing
Sonja Lyubomirsky
The How of Happiness
N/D
Positive Psychology, Well-being, Flourishing
Sonja Lyubomirsky
The Myths of Happiness. What Should Make You Happy, but Doesn’t, What Shouldn’t Make You Happy, but Does
N/D
Positive Psychology, Well-being, Flourishing
Dr. Russ Harris
The Happiness Trap. How to Stop Struggling and Start Living
2022
Positive Psychology, Well-being, Flourishing
Carol Dweck Mindset
The New Psychology of Success
N/D
Positive Psychology, Well-being, Flourishing
Tal Ben-Shahar
The Pursuit of Perfect
2009
Positive Psychology, Well-being, Flourishing
Rick Hanson
Buddha’s Brain
2010
Positive Psychology, Well-being, Flourishing
Rick Hanson
Hardwiring Happiness
2013
Positive Psychology, Well-being, Flourishing
Robert A. Emmons
Gratitude Works! A 21-Day Program for Creating Emotional Prosperity
N/D
Positive Psychology, Well-being, Flourishing
Martin Seligman
Flourish. A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-being
2011
Positive Psychology, Well-being, Flourishing
Alex Korb, PhD
The Upward Spiral. Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time
2015
Positive Psychology, Well-being, Flourishing
Stephen Joseph Ph.D.
What Doesn’t Kill Us. The New Psychology of Posttraumatic Growth
2013
Positive Psychology, Well-being, Flourishing
Esther Perel
Mating in Captivity
2006
Romantic Relationships
Esther Perel
The State of Affairs Rethinking Infidelity
2019
Romantic Relationships
Richard Feynman
Surely You’re Joking Mr. Feynman
1985
Biographies
James Watson
Avoid Boring People. Lessons from a Life in Science
2007
Biographies
M.K. Gandhi
An Autobiography: The Story of My Experiments with Truth
2001
Biographies
Nelson Mandela
Long Walk To Freedom: The Autobiography of Nelson Mandela
1995
Biographies
Martin Luther King Jr
The Autobiography of Martin Luther King, Jr
2000
Biographies
Jim Collins, Jerry Porras
Built to Last. Successful Habits of Visionary Companies
1994
Business, Entrepreneurship
Jim Collins
Good to Great
2001
Business, Entrepreneurship
Jim Collins
How the Mighty Fall
2009
Business, Entrepreneurship
Jim Collins
Great by Choice
2011
Business, Entrepreneurship
Josh Kaufman
Personal MBA. Master the Art of Business
2010
Business, Entrepreneurship
Eric Ries
The Lean Startup
2011
Business, Entrepreneurship
Reid Hoffman
The Start-up of You. Adapt to the Future, Invest in Yourself, and Transform Your Career
2012
Business, Entrepreneurship
Peter Thiel
Zero To One
2014
Business, Entrepreneurship
Reid Hoffman
Blitzscaling. The Lightning-Fast Path to Building Massively Valuable Companies
2018
Business, Entrepreneurship
Eric Ries
The Startup Way: How Entrepreneurial Management Transforms Culture and Drives Growth
2017
Business, Entrepreneurship
Tony Robbins
Unshakeable. Your Financial Freedom Playbook
2017
Finance & Investing
Taylor Larimore, Barry Abrams
The Bogleheads Guide to Investing Second Edition
2019
Finance & Investing